"A SMILING SCAR"

   'A Smiling Scar'
Hey everybody, what's the first thing that strikes your mind when I say  'A smiling scar'........

    Sometimes, unintentionally, in the fit of anger, our loved ones hurt us to such an extent that, it becomes difficult for us to forgive them.  As the situation demands, they completely lose their senses and yell at us.Their sharp words Pierce our heart, leaving behind a deep scar.

    Even after a lot of try ,we fail to understand them because we are badly hurt by their words. People never be who they are when anger overpowers them. At once, words let out by people who were the reason for our smile turn out to be the reason for our tears, only and only because of a controllable emotion called anger. Who once were the key for our happiness, throw us into deep dark rooms of unbearable grief.
   Later when all their anger gets cooled down returning them to their senses, the loss is already done.The moment they realize that their never meant words pained us to tears, a huge heap of regret suffocates their breath. When they recall what they did, they feel ashamed of themselves. This feeling of theirs knocks down their courage to stand in front of us.
   Later that regret turns to guilt and makes it more difficult for them to handle. As the famous adage says, "TIME IS THE BEST HEALER" , they return to us after a few days and unable to look into our eyes , tries to explain the situation saying that it was not intentional. After gathering all their bravery they do ask for forgiveness.

  But it is difficult for us to forgive them as their words had mortified and shattered our heart into pieces.Whenever we encounter them ,we tend to recall all their words and actions which grieved us a lot. We can neither forgive nor forget them. And the worse part is that we can't even get away from them and move on in our lives because after all they were the ones who once meant our world.

   At this point, life again surprises us with two options, either to forgive them or get away from them.
If we choose the second option, in due course of time, may be the wounds of their words heal but those impressions still remain and turn into scars which never fade so easily.
   But if we go for the first option which is terribly difficult and try to forgive them, it would give them another chance and bring back the reconciliation to some extent. And may be who knows it can even bring back the spark of magic in our relation that we once had. Even though we forgive them , the scars still remain . But yes, there is a chance that our dear ones once again become the reason for our smile that would obviously dominate those scars.

Then gradually all those scars turn into smiles making it amazingly beautiful once again.

" It's always good to give our loved ones a second chance''

  So the first thing that strikes my mind listening to the word 'A smiling scar' is 'Forgiveness', which is the most strongest and the most basic tinge of every relation.

"SILENCE"

     People believe that speech and words serve the best medium to express one's feelings.
No! It's not true. Words and speech doesn't give the heart, a chance to express itself.
It's the "Silence" that gives the heart, its complete freedom to express.
"Heart beat can be completely felt only in silence".
I think you got my point and now it completely makes sense right!

    Now, think of a river. It actually originates at a mountain top. Glaciers melt and river
starts its journey and ends at sea. The river travels all the way from the mountain top to the
sea. If you carefully observe, the river is in its utmost pure form at its origin, 'The mountain top'
but as it travels, it tends to lose its purity and gradually ends its journey.

   Similarly, feelings originate at heart and travel through words and speech. At heart, the
 feelings are at their utmost purity. As the words and speech carry them, they tend to lose their purity,intensity and above all the actual emotion.
"Words and speech fail to express the actual emotion".

  Silence is the only way through which the feelings of a person can be felt with the actual emotion as it drives us to the origin place, 'The heart' of the person. Silence doesn't amplify or attenuate the emotion behind the feelings, it clearly delivers them right from the heart.All the feelings 'Happiness,grief, gratitude.....everything can be expressed through silence with utmost precision.

   "Silence is a language which gives the heart its complete freedom to express itself.
      And only the person who understands our silence, can understand our feelings 
      and feel our heart's emotions".